Help Please! Need advice on 3 week old pups, Breeder forcing me to make my pick now

[Gumbo and Ashley]

These standard Goldendoodle pups are almost 3 weeks old. Breeder who lives in Ohio (I live in Louisiana) is forcing me to make my pick early (I have first pick)  even tho her website clearly states picks will be at 6 weeks old. I am upset bc I don't feel at 3 weeks old I can even tell what they will look like or what their personalities be like.  So I'm asking for some guidance here.  Here are the 3 boys that am picking from.  PLEASE let me know if your now adult dog looked like any of these as a baby. I know its a long shot, but if breeder is forcing me to make my pick this early, I want to do as much research as I can as to other dogs that looked like them at 3 weeks and what they look like grown up. So PLEASE, if you have a Goldendoodle that looked alot like any of these pups.  PLEASE post a pic of what they look like now. Mostly interested in color and face shape, size etc.... These pups are all approx 2 1/2 lbs at 3 weeks.  Anybody out there know what their Goldendoodle weighed at 3 weeks? Just trying to see if these will be large dogs or average?? This is my first pet purchase OF MY LIFE, (and I'm 35 years old!!).  I want to get this right. It's like adopting a child, taking this very seriously. Any advice appreciated!

[Gumbo and Ashley]

Wow!!! I am overwhelmed with the amazing responses and advice. Just....wow!! I have read and agree with each and every one of you. I want to thank you for taking the time to respond, I wish I could reply to each individually, but it would literally take me all day. So, hopefully each one of you reads this and knows how happy it makes me to already have support like this, before I even become "part of the club". Thanks again!! As of today, still no reply from Breeder.. I'll be patiently waiting (something the breeder should take notes on) and will let y'all know what happens.... Have a fabulous weekend Doodle Gang!  :))  ASHLEY

[Stella]

Looking forward to hearing what you decide to do!

[Lori, Quincy & Frankie]

make smart choices!  all should be good! 

[Valarie]

Yes, looking forward to your pick.  Please keep us updated.  This is a great forum with such responsive and knowledgeable members.  I'm glad that you have received such great advice and hope that this will help you make a great choice for your new puppy.  Congrats - it's a big adventure!  Valarie