Labradoodle & Goldendoodle Forum
Hi DK,
Bentley is my first dog, so I learn all that I can by reading online and buying books. I'm so grateful to have found this site, because I have tons of questions!! haha!
so we've discovered that Bentley is terrified of the garbage truck. I think it's the funniest thing, but he doesn't! The first time we were out walking, he saw it, tucked his tail and cowered under me. He practically pulled me all the way home. Now, he seems to recognize the sound, because last week, it came around and we were inside and he came running under my desk. My fiance, being a guy and all, hates that he's scared of the truck, so he picked him up and brought him outside to the truck and to meet the guys. He said he freaked out the entire time and he had him out there for a good ten minutes. Once Bentley came in, you could tell he was traumatized and was very calm for the next couple of hours. I felt awful for him.
Any suggestions on how to overcome this?
Thanks,
Sabrina
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Bentley is a baby, and your fiance needs to understand that. Puppies, like human babies, are going to be frightened by loud noises and strange things that are new to them. They just need to be exposed to as many sights, sounds, people, places, etc., as possible, in a gentle and non-threatening manner, until they get accustomed to them. This is what is called "socialization", which has nothing to do with getting together with other dogs, as many new owners believe.
What your fiance did with Bentley and the garbage truck is called "flooding", and it's not usually recommended. He needs a more gentle and gradual introduction to new things that firghten him. A better way to handle it would have been to speak softly and encouragingly to Bentley and offer him treats while staying outdoors near, (but not too near) the truck.
Ask your fiance if he would have been upset if your human baby was afraid of something huge and very noisy, and if he would have picked the baby right up and taken him out to the truck to meet the garbage men, lol.
It's natural for a puppy (or a person for that matter) to be afraid of something very large and very noisy that he's never seen before. He doesn't know what it might do. Over time and exposure, these fears do go away.
Daisy is less afraid of things like garbage trucks, cans and things out of place then before, we just keep moving past these things and I don't say anything, she does not bark she quickly moves away. About two months ago she started to be afraid of thunder, I never made a big deal if I am at my desk she will crawl under it and I just let her and get up when I need to.
I don't know what it is but I am thinking about getting her a Thundershirt. I am not sure she needs it but maybe it will add some comfort.
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