Labradoodle & Goldendoodle Forum
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At this point I don't think she can ignore it. Her dog is 9 months old and 50lbs. He is hurting her. The "be a tree" or "ignore the behavior" is not going to work here.
Jill, I think I have a better understanding now of the situation. I've seen dogs do this to other dogs. It seems to stem from not only wound up behavior, but from a lack of respect for the other dog's space. In dogs, I see it as very pushy behavior and usually the more submissive dog ends up on the losing side of the equation. If your dog is doing this to you, I'd say that he DOES NOT respect your personal space or your position in the family.
Have you ever heard of NOTHING IN LIFE IS FREE? Google this training philosophy and start implementing some of the suggestions in your home. Is your dog allowed on the furniture? End this immediately including letting him up on your bed.
As far as training collars go, I'd put a correctly fitted prong collar on this guy so that your correction will really make him sit up and take notice. The next time you are walking and he turns on you, pop him 2-4 times really hard with the leash. The prong is going to give him a super hard correction and he will be surprised. He may even yelp. At the same time I would tell him in a voice that brooks no opposition, 'DO NOT BITE ME'. Then I'd walk on. Don't make nice to him. Don't baby him. Just walk and let him mull over what just happened. A minute or two latter if he is being good and walking along, I'd praise him and slip him a treat. It will be interesting to see if he comes back at you again during the course of the walk. If he does, let him have it You have to be really firm. Don't be afraid of hurting him. Remember that this is a consequence for very disrespectful and even dangerous behavior.
About the behavior at the door. I'm not crazy about dogs wearing prong collars when they are unsupervised so I'd keep him leashed up and tethered to you or at least have him drag a leash where you can see him in the house. If you can't directly supervise him, I'd keep him in a crate (being in the crate also means that he can't attack you when you come home). Again, if he starts jumping and biting you, I'd give him a correction with leash that would stop him in his tracks. (The prong collar will help with this.) Be clear. This behavior stops NOW.
I agree with Carol I do not think it can be ignored. I too believe for whatever reason he thinks he is dominate to you, and comes before you in the pack standings,especially since he does not do this to your husband, and for what ever reason knows that your husband is the lead.
Rhonda
OK, here is what I have experienced a couple of times with my dogs little sister Bella. She will be fine and playing really hard, then all of a sudden she stops playing nicely and growls and lunges. She is four months old. I simply grab hold of the back of her neck much like her mother would, give her a little shake and tell her NO. She immediately comes out of it, it's almost like a trance. She actually seems apologetic, she comes up, kisses me and tries to get closer, I then give her big praises and hugs.
Was your pup adopted at an earlier age than 8 weeks? Bella was not quite 6 weeks, way too early in my opinion.
The scary thing is your dog is now 9 months old and probably way bigger. Hopefully you are able to get this under control quickly.
Good Luck
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