Labradoodle & Goldendoodle Forum
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No, not little people in fur coats---not by any stretch.
But I do agree that dogs do experience a wide range of emotions. I think the trouble with anthropomorphizing is when assume we know what a dog is thinking or feeling based on what we would be thinking/feeling in the same situation. They may or may not be experiencing the same thing. For example I don't think Rosco's relationship with Boca is at all like my relationship with my siblings. I don't think they consider each other 'brother and sister" even though I talk about it that way at times for fun. I don't think they think of me as 'mom' or expect the kinds of relationship/behavior I expected from my mom. I'm not sure 'cuddling' to them is experienced the same way--even though closeness and touch and massage, I'm fairly certain, is very pleasurable for dogs too.
I could go on and on but suffice to say that regardless of what our differences are...people and dogs go very well together =)
I don't think Murphy is a person in a dog suit. He is a very special dog, and I am so very grateful for that.
I think for anyone who has owned a dog, the fact that they have a wide variety of emotions is obvious. People who say dogs can't be happy or sad clearly haven't been around many.
I do feel however, that many owners endow their dogs with human emotions and preferences that they just don't have. I agree with you that it takes nothing away from us to admit our pet's emotional capabilities. But assuming your dogs preferences based on yours... is not the best for your dog. Example, "I love looking cute in daily outfits so my dog will too" Dogs obviously have no fashion sensibilities, and would rather not be wearing clothes. It may be attractive to believe that your dog has the same hobbies, likes and dislikes as you... but it just isn't so.
I have seen my dogs display fear, depression, anxiety, excitement, joy, contentment...but I'm not sure a dog experiences these as "emotions" in the same way humans do. What I mean is that when I am nervous or sad, I am conscious of that. My mind knows that I am feeling nervous, and it usually knows why. I don't think that's true of dogs. I think a dog feels anxious or happy as a reaction to something (a trip to the vet, a trip to the dog park) but isn't consciously aware of being nervous or excited and why. So I'm not sure I would say that JD experiences emotions as I understand emotions in myself and other humans.
I think pain is not an emotion, and we know that anything with nerve endings can feel pain. Love, well, love is a tough one, lol. I'm not sure we can even define love among humans, lol. I would have thrown myself in front of a bus for one of my children, (or for one of my dogs, actually), but a police K9 will take a bullet for his human partner, and that isn't because he "loves" him. Loyalty, definitely. Protectiveness and/or instinct, for sure. But maybe those are the same things that would drive me to thrown myself in front of that bus. Maybe a dog "loves" his owners the way a young child loves his mother...it may be based more on need than deep emotional attachment. I know that the way I loved my mother when I was a child was very different from the way I loved my child as her mother, lol. I would like to believe that JD loves me, but in all honesty, I'm not sure. I do know he feels a lot more secure when I'm around.
And I've seen dogs who've lost their homes and their "person" display what clearly looks like grief to me. I know some of you who've had one dog pass away have seen that in the remaining dog, too. That one seems the most similar to a human emotion to me.
The one thing I'm sure about is that dogs get over all of these emotions, or whatever they are, a lot faster than people do. Those lucky creatures!
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