Obie and I recently joined and I've really enjoyed reading posts from other doodlelovers! The more I read, the luckier I think we are; my husband and I researched it all on the internet and after failing to adopt a rescue, ended up buying a six month old F1 mini labradoodle from a breeder.
Obie had lived outside in a kennel in the country with his sister most of his life and so was not habituated to household living and is still getting used to the things in a house; he's pretty skittish after being with us for a month, and I wonder if others have seen this in their pups. Obie is not afraid of people or dogs, just THINGS, like my pocketbook, a shopping bag, anything new in a room - and he does notice ANYTHING new! I bought him a little dog pillow for the tv room, and he will not go near it yet! Our neighbor's shitzu came in, went straight to it and curled up in it! My work as a psychologist has come in handy in helping Obie with desensitization and classical and operant conditioning - yay Pavlov and Skinner! (Obie will do almost anything for the tiniest piece of cheese!) I would love to do some clicker training with him, but he's terrified of the clicker noise, so I may try a ballpoint pen click. I was also interested to read about grooming doodles; Obie needs some combing to avoid matting around his face, but if I get close to him with a brush in my hand, he bolts, even after practically sleeping with the brush for a week!
At almost 8 months old, our pup is about 25 pounds. His mom was a yellow lab and his father was a miniature poodle. He's definitely our sweetie!