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My old chow chow Butter's health has been declining over the summer. ( 16 & 1/2 years old) I felt like he was waiting for one of my daughters to come home from her summer job in Ohio. She came home on 8/25, and we took him to the vet. Since then, he perked back up, ate turkey and rice like a champ, went outside and was happy again. My daughter left back for college late sunday afternoon, happy to see him doing well again. Monday evening, he brought back all of his dinner, and since then, he is going back down. He woke up early this morning moaning and has been lethergic all morning. We are taking him back to see Dr. Sweeney this afternoon, but the sun may be setting. I am so sad.
He has been with us all these years and I feel like he helped me with my kids, and protected us. They were all little kids then... He is such a strong dog, with pride and dignity.
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No matter how many times you got through it, it never gets any easier. The only people who understand are other dog people. I'm so glad we can be here for you. Never feel ashamed of your grief, and never let anyone make you feel that you "need to move on", you "should be over it by now", etc. As you said, it's a process. He was not just part of your life for so long, he was part of your every day routine. Our days begin and end with our dogs. We don't always realize how much our daily routines are structured around them. I can't tell you how many times I reached for a food dish or a water bowl that was no longer there. But with time, it does hurt less. You will think about him, talk about him, and you will smile.
They are always walking beside us.
Kyoko...
I'm so very sad and sorry to hear the news about Butler!
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family...
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