Monty and me

[Jason Wilson]

Monty came to live with us in Portland last Saturday. He's a ten week old F1b goldendoodle. I haven't had a puppy since I was a kid, and my wife only ever had farm dogs, but he's been great. He's already sitting, and toilet training has been accident-free so far. He came from the country so he still needs to get used to big city noise, but we'll get there. He must be the sweetest dog I've ever met. 

What I can't understand is the people on the Internet who hate these guys so much. I am amazed when I read forums and see people assuming that doodle breeders are irresponsible and doodle owners are idiots. Do you ever get used to it? 

[Helga, Nimbus, Sierra, Clooney]

He's adorable and people just don't know how awesome doodles are. And there's nothing wrong with getting your dog from a good breeder. I've been urged to get a shelter dog by someone who already owned 2 dogs she didn't take care of properly and then got a puppy for her son. She didn't even have the time to house train it. I think I'm way more responsible as I really care about my pets. Most people act excited when they meet Nimbus , though. They say he's the cutest dog they've ever seen.

[Gail and Bailey]

We avoid reading the negative stuff and concentrate on the wonderful atmosphere here on Doodle Kisses.  Welcome to the greatest place you can find for doodle lovers!  Your little Monty is adorable and sure looks like a happy boy!  Glad it is going great with his "puppyhood" so far!  If and when you hit those difficult puppy times...this is a wonderful place to come for help or just to share and vent.  There is always someone who has gone through it and will share experiences and offer advice.  Make sure to join the Food Group and take the time to look at the list of recommended foods and treats.  Enjoy!!. 

[Lucy & AnnaBelle's Mom]

I was like you and was shocked when I read the first negative comments about doodles.  I have chosen not to engage those folks in any conversation and just feel sorry for them because they have no idea what they are missing.  Everyone has preferences for types of dog that they like.  The part I have trouble understanding is why they feel the need to be rude.  Everyone is entitled to their opinion, but no one is entitled to be rude.  Just ignore them and enjoy your gorgeous little guy.  If I encounter it in public I just sort of shrug my shoulders and walk away.

[Kris and Sawyer]

I've never encountered it in person, but I've read the awful things on the internet. In person, everyone loves Sawyer. They may ask what he is...sometimes I say goldendoodle, sometimes I say he's a mix. Lots of times he gets mistaken for old english sheepdog. But I've never had anyone be nasty about him. It's amazing what people will say when you're not standing right in front of them (i.e. Internet). I have an "I love my goldendoodle" license tag plate, and my car hasn't been keyed yet. :-).

[Kerry L]

I've had people tell me "that's not a real breed." My response, "Oh so he doesn't deserve my love as much as your 'pure breed' deserves your love?" That usually shuts them up.

Also my response to the whole, "Why not rescue a dog?" is this; My husband and I knew we would be having children within the next few years (it ended up being sooner than expected, I am currently pregnant. We actually found out I was pregnant a week before we picked up our Hank) and I didn't want to be constantly worrying about past issues (aggression, etc) flaring up with a rescue when we had a baby. My sister and brother-in-law rescued 2 dogs before they had children and the dogs were great, then when they had kids, they caught one of the dogs growling at their baby. They took the dog to trainers, behaviorists, everything they could to work with him.They ended up having to make the decision to put that dog down about a month ago because he was getting more and more aggresive with the kids and other dogs and they were not willing to risk the safety of their child. It's really not fair to rescue a dog, just to place them in a not-so-ideal situation down the road. Obviously, I've put a lot of thought into rescue, this is just by 2 cents.

[Cheryl and Finnegan]

I pay no attention to it…and your Monty will be the best ambassador there is :)  I have rarely experienced negative comments in person.  In fact, if I had a dollar for every person who asked to pet Finn, what kind of dog is he, and left with a smile, FInn would be set for life :)

[Nancy, Ned, Clancy, and Charlie]

I don't care for the bully breeds, so I figure others are allowed not to like doodles.   I ignore most of the stuff pro or con on the internet.  In 'touchy' seeming situations I just say my dogs are poodle mixes and elaborate only if it seem appropriate.  I don't really care what others think but I also don't intend to get into an argument  with a stupid person.  I will correct people who believe the hype about doodles all being hypoallergenic and non-shedding. Many fit this description, but many don't and often end up in rescue when their disillusioned owners find out differently.

[Darlene S Bentley]

I have rescue dogs at home ... and one was a purchased gift. I studied long and hard about the breed or mix I needed to train for my disability. I have severe copd and need an assistance dog who did not affect my breathing with loose dog hair floating about. The first Labradoodle was bred for a blind woman with allergies to dogs.I also needed to know what the parents and background of my dog to be was. It was of dire importance. I am happy to say I chose a F1b Labradoodle. I have (Puppy Prodigy Reese ... on my blog ... in case you would like to read it :) )

He is just the smartest baby ever. He just turned 7 months old on the 9th of this month, He knows all his obedience ... opens doors ... turns on light switches ... and loves to swim! Lol! We live at a lake  ... but I even bought him his own 240 gallon pool. Also ... he will leave an entire bowl of food if I go to another room. How loyal is that?

I was badgered soooo badly by a Forum I had been on for a couple of years about purchasing Reese ... I left. They do not know what they are missing! ..... Your new baby is precious BTW! :D Enjoy and ignore the rest! 

I love this forum because we are all on the same page! :D

[Leslie, Yogi & Maci Bear]

I knew about the negative feedback some doodle owners received before I got Yogi, so once I had him, anytime someone asked me what kind of dog he was I braced myself for some nasty comments. I have never heard anything mean at all.
Soooo many people stop and ask us about him. They either say " oh I want one", or "he's adorable", or " I can't believe he's a puppy" (because he's got such a wonderful temperament).
Maybe it's certain parts of the country where there is more bias against them, but face to face it's been great.
I do avoid looking at places online that might be negative... But I do that with everything in life, I just don't want to subject myself to that, preferring upbeat positive people.... Like DK'ers. ;-)

[Gretchen Nastrom]

Monty is a gorgeous guy!  If he's like so many doodles out there, my guess is that he will have some of that "silly" poodle in him and provide hours of entertainment!  Whenever we take Preston anywhere, people always stop us and ask to pet him because he is so friendly and wants to meet them too.  I guess I haven't heard a lot of negative feedback about doodles, but if someone isn't up for living with an intelligent and active breed, then a doodle might not be for them.  In my opinion, they are such characters and I can't imagine having any other kind of dog.  You will have a blast with him!

[Jason Wilson]

Thanks everyone. I will ignore the haters and focus on having fun with Monty!

[Kelly & Zoe]

He's gorgeous BTW - our Zoe s also an F1b and all black!  I ignore the haters and do *not* feel guilty about not getting a rescue, or getting a 'designer' dog.  People can be petty- why waste time on them!  Enjoy your adorable pooch!