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This happened to Fudge, too. She liked daycare initially and then at some point, would shake when I dropped her off and try and go home with me. I would watch her on the monitor and she would just sit in the middle of the room and not interact with the other dogs. I always felt like something happened there, although they said nothing ever did. I eventually just stopped taking her there.
She's absolutely adorable in that hat! Both of my Doods love Daycare and always have. They go one full day and one half day every week. I wonder if she's going through a fear phase right now. I also wonder if because she only goes every few weeks may be the problem.....it's not really a part of her "routine". I would definitely try again and try not to show any emotion as you leave her. Good luck.
Hi Lia ~ Our breeder gave me a 5 page document titled: "International Doodle Owners Group Doodle Development Periods. This is a five page document that documents the different stages your puppy goes through as he grows and develops. It is really quite informative. I will scan it and if anyone would like a copy I can email it to you.
It sounds like Pippa is in the Second Fear Imprint Period (6-14 months) see below:
"Yikes! What's up with that?"
You have a puppy that is full of beans, he runs around like a clown in search of his next show. But then, BAM, he refuses to walk down some stairs, he is shaking in the car, or he jumps at the sound of the neighbor's music. Surprise! This is normal, but you must help your dog figure out how to deal with his fears or concerns. The skills of learning how to "shake it off and keep going" will be valuable to him for the rest of his life. It will also reduce the chances that the things he fears will not be permanently imprinted for life.
What is happening:
-The puppy that was so confident will suddenly become reluctant to new things.
-This period can be subtle.
-This period can come and go several times over this entire period.
-It may appear to be unprovovked or unrelated to any specific occurrence.
-Puppy can become frustrating to owners.
What you can do:
Avoid extremes in your response (no anger or forcing or over comforting) be calm and assertive.
-Be patient and understanding.
-Well aware of surrounding and potential triggers.
-Work on desensitizing him with gradual introductions with rewards.
-Avoid reassurance and coddling (which is a reward for this behavior)
-Don't over react or correct the fearfulness-just make light of it and encourage him to deal with his fear (work through the fear).
-Praise with grand rewards for his attempts.
-Your dog will take his clues from you, if you act frightened or concerned he will too.
Riley had one day which was similar to what you describe. The staff are wonderful and said they were just about to call me when he settled down and was fine for the rest of the day. I think something happened the time before though nobody could put their finger on it. I was really worried and took him back a few days later and he bounded in as normal.
Thank you all for your ideas/feedback. Pippa has not acted strange again since Monday at daycare. I'd like her to go a few days this next week so I think this afternoon I'm gonna take her by and see how she acts in the lobby/parking lot. It definitely could be a new fear stage. My husband thinks that she just didn't feel good that day (she had had some diarrhea on Sunday). I'll keep you all updated. Thanks!
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