HAPPY BIRTHDAY

[Cathy C. Bennett]

Hello everybody – allow me to introduce you to a very special lady…

I’ve talked about her here, here, and here! She’s my “mommy!” and the “other” furrvorite lady in Harley’s life…

My mother was “something else” back in the day. The original “fashionista” wwaaaay before TJ MAXX hit the shopping mall scene…

Sunday, March 2nd DH, The Boys, extended family and I celebrated her 97th birthday. It was a Doodle*tastic day, but bittersweet because of the weather. Due to yet “another” winter storm blowing across the east coast, my siblings were unable to make the journey 

But have no fear -  I had her two furrvorite furry furrends with me to make the pawty complete…

Leo saying hello

Harley has taken on the role of “activities supervisor” when it comes to anything involving my mom. He remains close-by the entire time we’re with her, and she seems to enjoy his company…

Her behavior fascinates me because “before” dementia, my mother never cared much for animals, least of all dogs! Yet there’s a very visible connection between the two. The relationship baffles me.

Furrever the Kevin Costner to his Whitney Houston, Harley isn’t leaving her side.

About two years ago, my mother seemed to be slipping away from us. On one occasion when we came to visit, she was asleep. We didn’t want to wake her, but Harley was not in favor of that plan. He pushed his way into her room and refused to leave her side for quite some time…

True stories…

Even now, when she naps, he naps…

They were “thick as thieves” in the past. All afternoon long you’d hear “Hey there Poochie-Poochie” and he’d come running in her direction. Now “Poochie-Poochie” just hangs close and I believe they share a secret language, one filled with gestures, licks, nudges, and smiles.

So it was only fitting, as we ALL watched her devour her birthday cupcake, the one lonely crumb that fell, you guessed it – Harley ate…

Happy Birthday Mommy, “oodles and doodles of love” to you today and always….

Thanks for reading, of course I’ll write again…

[Cathy C. Bennett]

Hi Maryann, thanks so much for your lovely and kind words. She is a great mom, and she still can give the best kisses too! I count everyday with her a tremendous blessing and it is always a pleasure and honor to write about her and share her with others. Thanks so much for reading.

[Maryann,Roo and Tigger]

Clearly Harley is not the only one who loves Mom.  I am sorry to hear she has slipped into dementia, but you are lucky to have had her for such a long healthy life.  She certainly knew how to dress well, but she must have mothered even better, as she is clearly loved by you.

What a marvelous tribute to your mom to share her with us on her birthday.

 

[Cathy C. Bennett]

Thanks Janie, I sometimes feel like I've got three pups to worry about - Harley, Leo and Wilson - HA!

[Cathy C. Bennett]

Thanks Linda - Take care

[Linda, Charlie Brown and Beau]

Cathy ~ you have some great genes in your family!  Happy Birthday to your beautiful Mom!

[Janie, Jackson and Jilly]

Happy Birthday to your beautiful Mom! I love the connection that she and Harley have and I love that Leo and Wilson are together in the photo! : )

[Cathy C. Bennett]

Hi Ms. Ellie! You have some pretty strong genes in your family too! 100 years old, that was truly a gift from God. Sorry to hear you lost her - please hold on to those memories, you've got tons to cherish. Great as always to hear from you.

[Cathy C. Bennett]

I agree Jen, Doodles are simply amazing creatures. Thanks for reading

[Cathy C. Bennett]

Hi Brittney - it is absolutely amazing how many people have written in to tell me similar stories. Before Harley I would hear folks talk about their dogs and elderly parents, but I never really witnessed it for myself. It is something to see. Thanks for reading.

[Cathy C. Bennett]

Thanks Karen, yes Harley & Leo amaze me every time. Thanks for reading