When I am notified that I have a post on my page and I click on it from my computer it doesn't take me to my decorated page but an undecorated "second" page. Does yours do this? Is it because I need to delete old comments? I like to view my page since I took the time to decorate it - yes, I know that I can click on it, but I would like to be transported to "my decorated" page all of the time.
Karen, it is more recent. That is why I thought that perhaps I needed to delete some stuff. I know that when I get new friends they don't show up on my list as recent. They only show up when I click alphabetical I assumed that I exceeded the basic friend allowance - I know there is one for sending messages.