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Finn has always been a velcro dog -- my shadow --and as sweet as his devotion is, I know it's not just love --there's some component of anxiety to it and that makes me sad for him, sometimes. I guess the correct term is hyper attachment or attachment dysfunction.  BUT Finn has been well socialized and easy to train. Always happy to meet and greet new people in all sorts of settings - as long as I'm within sight. When he sees some of his favorite people, we still have to remind him to keep 4 paws on the floor. He's never had typical separation anxiety --never been destructive when left alone. He loves going places, seems to enjoy his therapy work - especially with the kids (although the children he had become so attached to over the past 2 years moved on to middle school and he's got a new group this year). On the flip side, he's territorial and protective when he's home but once he knows you're welcome, he's back to wagging his tail. So I have no explanation for his strange behavior last week when I took him to visit family and friends in VA.

He knows everyone, knows the house etc.  He's been going there several times a year since puppyhood and always enjoys it. He doesn't feel he has to "watch over" their home (which I think must be a huge relief to him) and greets everyone who comes in or out.  But this time he was:

Irrationally fearful as soon as we walked in the house.

Looked from side to side, behind him, up at the ceiling as if something was coming after him.  This state of high anxiety/fear continued over 4 days.  It was awful to see him so frightened and not be able to help him. He fell twice on the stairs trying to get away from...what???

Would not come to anyone including me. In fact, when I knelt down on the floor and tried to talk to him, he barked and barked at me, but would not approach me.  We gave him his "space" and everyone put treats in their pockets that they would toss to him as he passed. I picked up a lot of treats.

Ran up to our room if anyone approached him. He seemed to feel safe on the bed.  He spent a lot of time there over 4 days. I was able to to calm him in the bedroom.

He barely ate (despite us cooking up ground beef and chicken) for him.  Nope, wouldn't touch it. Drank lots of water.

When he was with all of us, he avoided being touched by anyone, except once when he sought out my niece's husband.

I was about to take him to the emergency vet BUT he seemed to relax when we went for walks.  Once back in the house though, his fear increased again and he acted like ghosts were chasing him. We were all concerned. One guest asked if he was blind!  Someone else thought he was an abused rescue - not trying to be dramatic but that's how bizarre his behavior was.  

Got him home, called his vet, but once home he was back to normal (thankfully). His therapy session with the kids this week (which I thought about canceling) went ok. We just returned from some errands this morning and he greeted everyone happily -customers and rescue pups -- as we shopped for Christmas treats. Several people remarked how sweet, friendly and well behaved he was. I'm thinking you should have seen him a week ago !!!!!!  SO glad my boy is back because I don't know who that dog was in VA. The doc wants to run a panel of thyroid tests.  

Medical or behavioral?  Completely baffled.

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Not that I can think of.  Finn does hospital rounds and there are alway unusual objects - big carts, wheelchairs, oxygen stands etc, being moved around him - and the occasional clanging of a dropped bedpan.  Nothing fazes him.

Oh, I was hoping that you had found the solution.  DRAT.  Thinking of you and Finn.

Thanks DJ.  It's a mystery so far.

Oh Cheryl, I'm just now reading about Finn. How stressful that must have been for you and him. I bet you couldn't wait to just bring him home. I really hope you can figure it out. I wish they could just tell us what's up.There are a handful of people that Jack will bark - make that howl - at. One is my cousin's husband who is truly a sweetheart and you wonder what the heck! There's something there that Jack does not like. And he howls. If we're out and about and he does it to a stranger, I take his word for it and get away! lol It is very rare that this happens though. He is usually the people greeter.

Maybe I should send Jilly over to stir things up and get Finn's mind on something else! Seriously, hugs to you guys and I hope he tests out ok. Will check back.

Thanks Janie.  Jilly might be the best medicine :)  Finn would be too busy loving her to think of much else :)

I was talking about this discussion with DH today and the first thing that came to his mind was carbon monoxide or something from the furnace.  I know the link to the discussion regarding carbon monoxide is in this discussion, but just wondering if your sister has a detector or has had her furnace checked lately.  I sure hope that you can figure it out.  Does your sister live far away or can you just go for a short day visit to see if Finn reacts the same way again?

As far as we know - furnace ok.  She live 6 hours away so next visit won't be until spring.

Awww poor Finn! Just a thought, how close are the neighbors houses? Could one of the neighbors got an wireless e-fence or something? I have no clue how far those signals can travel but it's a thought. The fact that Finn is used to hospitals with all the sounds, bleeps and such it does sound really odd that a familiar house, with familiar people would all of a sudden bother him. Crossing paws all is good with his bloodwork! You would think though that if it was medical that he would be acting strange in other environments as well.  Hopefully this was a one time thing and next time you visit your friends in VA everything is back to normal & whatever caused the issue is no longer bothering him! 

Thanks Patty.

Cheryl, are their power lines near the house?  If so, perhaps they are emitting a new high-frequency noise.

I wondered about that Nancy  -- but there are no high power lines - the house is on the river. All regular power lines are buried and FInn was better outside than in the house but good thought.

Guess I am back to ghosts! :-\

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