"DH"???

[Nancy Sunderland]

6 weeks and a few days to go. Does "DH" stand for doodle-husband?? I really hope so because that is what I've been assuming, LOL! If it is, then my DH is slowly moving away from being hesitant about our doodle puppy. He says small dogs are yappy... Ours will be a large-mini. I think he's wrong but I don't know much about dogs. I think he'll fall in love with her as soon as he sees her. I must admit, the biggest hurdle to overcome in his mind is the cost. Where as for me, it could've been twice what it was! (don't tell my breeder!!!) I feel like he is minimally supportive and is "allowing" me and my daughters to get the puppy. I want him to be excited and happy just like we are. I'm hoping for a love at first site reaction when she comes home...

[Sue, Murphy and Bella ()*o*()]

Nancy, maybe my story will help too. My DH (was dear husband, now doodle husband), and I had NEVER had a dog in our lives, EVER. Never allowed even our children to have a dog. And we were always quite content NOT having one. Fast forward, daughter gets married, gets a doodle, mom falls in love with said doodle, mom now HAS to have one and DH says "Don't make it MY problem, it's YOURS!" and " Don;t get a little cutesy yappy dog".
So that was the agreement and I figured that I would just assume all care of him. Well, DH was very considerate of Murphy, but didn;t want to have to DO anything for him, (walk, potty train, clean-up, feed) for at least 4 weeks, but he was beginning to worm his way into his heart just by his adorable sweetness. I then had to go away for 12 days, and left the pup with DH. He did a great job and bonded immediately. Our pup and he became attached at the hips and DH became hopelessly addicted to our Murphy. He said "How can I not love something that gives you so much joy?" So....being a daddy of girls, and watching you and them get so much love and joy, will certainly melt his heart. Let him think he 'Allowed" it. lol. As for the money, you will all see that it's not about the money, cuz a doodles love is priceless. just my opinion tho. (Looking back I think it was love at first sight, but the big oof couldn't admit that then!)

[Kevin Poole, Penny & Ozzy]

From my limited experience, only having our pup for the past six weeks, I haven't met anyone yet, female or male who hasn't melted on first contact with her. Hubs will come round I'm sure. I'm a male, and a known big softie...so hard for me to be certain. I'd be tempted just to get on with caring with your pup yourself, and I bet he gets involved in no time...they are hard to ignore! Pups that is, not husbands...ha ha!

[Adina P]

He may very well fall in love with her...you never know. But don't expect him to admit it right away! I would just assume he's not in love and assume the main responsibility for her care...and then ya never know. She'll woo him with her curly hair and long lashes and loving morning kisses =)

Here's a list of acronyms and what they mean: http://www.doodlekisses.com/notes/Acronyms_Explained

[Allyson, Peri & Taquito]

My DH has on board, but not overly excited. Do men get overly excited anyway??? Now our Lady Peri has been with us for 6 weeks and he is in love. She is daddy's girl. He has 1st shift in the morning - feeding and playing with her while I get ready for work and spend time alone with our chihuahua. I hear him talking to her in the sweetest voices. It is so cute. He is so happy we got her even though she can be such a pain - she is a puppy after all!

[Adrianne Matzkin]

I found Samantha and she was a spur of the moment decision. She was my Mother's Day Gift - notice the 'my'?? Well, it did't take him long to fall head over heals for her. Now we are looking for #2 AND we will continue to foster whenever we are needed!!
It would be nice if you had the emotional support but don't hold it against him. As soon as the gets his first snuggle he will be addicted!!

[Nancy Sunderland]

Yeah, he is definitely used to the labs...

[Nancy Sunderland]

Thank you KATHY, your comment is very encouraging to me!!! (He does have 4 daughters, so I already know he has a soft spot for little girls...)

[Jane, Guinness and Murphy]

Our puppy isn't "yappy" at all. He only barks when he hears someone at the door or outside in the yard, and only for a minute. When I tell him "quiet" he stops. These dogs are so good, and all they really want to do is please you. It may be that your husband still is more comfortable with his more "manly" labs, but I'll bet he melts when he sees how much you and your girls love your new puppy.

[Kathy Spyker]

I think DH stands for "Dear husband" but anything works.:) My DH was not completly on board when I got Lilly. It took a couple of weeks for him to get attached to her but he DID..:) He takes her out and plays ball and walks her. The money thing "they get over it". Good luck and enjoy your new puppy when she gets their.