Making Dreams a Reality.

[Camilla and Darwin]

As you all know, we have been considering getting a second dog in the near future. I have researched, and I believe I have come to a decision on what we are looking for. A Standard Poodle, preferably apricot, red, or brown. There are three breeders I'm considering... but I can't bring myself to be put on their waiting list.

Darwin is really an easy keeper. He's going through his little rebellious stage, but it is nothing we can't handle. He is very submissive, no behavioral problems... very smart. Basically, we are really comfortable. I know he would love to have a brother or sister to play with. We take him to doggy daycare but we really can't afford it more than once or twice a week. I think he would be happy if he had a companion.

And then there is DH and I. I have always known I wanted two dogs. It seems like the perfect number, and from what I have read here on DK many people wouldn't have it any other way. Darwin seems like he is at a pretty good age to add a pup. I want him to be young enough that he can keep up with a puppy, and at almost a year, I think it's a good age.

Now, the problem is actually taking the leap of commitment. I find it really hard to consider it realistically. I am sure some of you can relate. you toy around with the idea, look at breeders, do your research... but you don't feel like you can ACTUALLY take the leap. What if it doesn't work out? Do you really have time for potty training? Is this really a good idea?

Although my DH has agreed we should get two dogs... I doubt he will reach a point where he will say "Sure, lets take 1500 out of our bank account and go for this!" It seems as though he will continuously agree and humor me... but once I decide to actually go for it... he is going to dig his heels in. Has anyone gone through something similar? Any advice?

[Nancy, Ned, Clancy, and Charlie]

In my opinion, a several year span of fully adult dog to puppy is perfect. We have spaced our dogs and really like that we have. The pup gets lots of personal attention and rejuvenates the older dog. The older dog helps train the younger one.

[Karen, Jasper and Jackdoodle]

I agree with you on the age thing. Don't wait until Darwin is 4 or 5 years old and may see an exuberant puppy as an annoyance rather than a playmate. If you really want a second dog, get him while the first one is still young enough to enjoy hard romping & playing, and is not yet too comfortable in his role as the "one & only" dog.