Only one week in with our Goldendoodle pup Penny and this is where we are so far:
I'm taking her for 2-3 short walks round the block a day, apart from the grabbing the leash occasionally, she's doing pretty damn good. I don't let her lead the way, and she already sits at the curb to cross roads when I say "Sit for the curb!". I've decided that when she stops grabbing the leash and being shy of other dogs barking at her from behind their fences, we'll be good to go a little further. I know that walking is a great way to tire her and offer her some insight into the outside world. My wife and I both work from home, and both have a flexible schedule, so I'm sure that helps.
When going outside and inside the house, Penny has already learned that we go first, a good way to assert that alpha dog thing (thank you Cesar Milan). At first we had to block with our legs, but that is no longer a problem, she's a quick study.
We realized quickly how smart she is when visiting mom-in-law (grandma) last Saturday. Grandma has a sliding door into her garden (we don't) and she walked into the glass as soon as she spotted it. Then about 5 minutes later my wife went to let her out into the garden, Penny stopped at the door and pushed at the space with her paw to see if there was anything there. I thought that was awesome!
The constant nipping is a problem, but after searching on this site, I know it's common and doesn't last forever. However 2 nights ago, I was at my wits end end with her and was getting angry (I'm one of those people with normally infinite patience), so my wife Jeri, seeing that I was getting somewhat frazzled put Penny on the leash and held her in check beside her chair and eventually she calmed down. Seems she gets like that mostly when she's tired and refuses to accept it just like a toddler.
At night we crate her at the bottom of the bed, we wait until she's ready to drop, and put her in and we have had only one pee accident, and that was on the second night. We're reluctant to crate her when she's naughty as we don't want her to relate to it a punishment zone, so we haven't done that, although sometimes it's been close. We are going to bed a little earlier and getting up early too, but Penny is usually good for about 6 hours at night, I can cope with that at night.
We haven't had a pee accident in the house this last four days, and no poop accidents at all. I think we're lucky that we're both home all the time, as we are able to recognize the signs easier. Because we're home all the time, one of the worries I have is for Penny to experience separation anxiety when we need to go somewhere without her, yesterday we waited until she was falling asleep, crated her and off we went to the grocery store, she was still asleep when we got back, I'll keep you posted on that.
We also have 3 indoor cats, Penny wants to play with them but the cats are treating her with contempt. We have a small hallway off the living area that leads to two bedrooms (one being my office and where we have the cat dishes and the litter ray - aren't I lucky?) and the spare bathroom. We've put a cedar chest across the hallway that the cats can jump over and Penny can't yet. When she's bigger we'll put in a gate with a cat door and that will give the cats some space they can relax in, although they are starting to come out more, especially when Penny is asleep, I'm sure they are thinking "Is she dead yet?". Our youngest cat Violet (aka Potsy), does on occasion encourage Penny to chase her, and when she does, gains high ground and swots at her with clawless front paws.
All in all we're so glad to have Penny in our lives, she's frikkin' adorable, just love burying my face in hers and inhaling that new puppy smell.
Oh yes, another thing about that nipping. I'm bald, and sometimes when the nipping get bad, I've found that if I get on all fours with her and slowly bulldoze into her, she can't get her mouth round my head, and she drops to the floor on her back and goes all submissive, I like that and can do anything I like with her. I suppose that's another alpha dog thing.
That's all folks!
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