Labradoodle & Goldendoodle Forum
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Hi again.. I got her when she was 7 weeks old. My stepdaughter and stepson were driving home from school and I thought that it would be better to have the pup drive with them rather than put her through the plane ride a week later. I am questioning now bringing her to school, but I was only in my class with her for about 10 minutes, not around all of the kids. My class all sat at the carpet while I showed them the pup. I am really hoping that her behaviours were due to her being nervous, both at the school and at the vet.
I got Murphy at 6 weeks and he is fine. Just info...not a recommendation. (I spent the Christmas holidays dealing with my son's 10 week old Weimaraner pup.)
Hope everything works out.
I kinda thought that about a school visit at 9 weeks too. My dog, when he was 14 weeks, barfed with nerves when he met a bunch of kids...on his own turf, too. I know there is this window of socialization, but it does not have to be intense. Meeting a veeeery mellow dog with perfect health and up-to-date shots is a nice socialization opportunity. Spending time with your family AND in the crate will give your puppy a feeling of control over her environment that meeting strangers does not. My feeling is that if the situation is too scary I felt I had to carry the puppy, then it probably was too scary period. Of course my puppy was 25 lbs and 14 weeks when I got him ;-)
I do think you are doing the right thing in aiming for socialization. And I think the opposite--hiding the puppy from the world--IS a bad idea.
I definitely agree with talking with your breeder. I'd want to know a few things...
I have a hard time thinking of a nine week old puppy as being truly aggressive. What is her behavior like other than these three instances. Is she "full of herself" and confident or more withdrawn and fearful? I think once you get a good handle on personality/temperament it should be fairly easy to craft a training plan. First of all, she definitely needs to understand that you are her leader and that you are making the "rules", but you are also the one who will keep her safe. I'd start right away making her "earn" everything. I'd teach her to sit for all food and water. I'd withhold any treats that she doesn't earn....through really simple exercises. She's struggling with impulse control right now (because she's still a baby), so whenever I observed her responding appropriately I'd reward and celebrate. She needs to learn to respect and trust you, and I believe she definitely will as long as you're clear about your expectations and consistent with your responses. I'll be honest, I have a little bit of a problem with forcing a puppy this age into a submissive position. If she's reacting out of fear or confusion, I'm not sure this will do any good and could even escalate the reaction. Others will probably disagree, but this is my opinion. I really hope that you will think carefully before making a decision to give her back to the breeder. She's going through the transition from everything she knew to your home now, and I think it would be difficult for her to go back. And if she does, do you know what the breeder would do with her? I'd really want to know that as well before making any decisions. I have two Doodles....one was easy, and one is more of a challenge. My "tough guy" was also very reactive as a puppy, but he has made huge progress. Now he would never, ever consider being aggressive with me. We've built a bond and I'm helping him to learn how he should be behaving through training....and he's just wonderful. I really believe the same can happen with your puppy with time, work and lots of love. I wish you the best of luck....and please know that there's a whole community here to help and support you.
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