Labradoodle & Goldendoodle Forum
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It could be that she is extremely busy. I am not sure, I know my breeder is so super busy right now because a whole bunch of her dogs, just had liters and she spends a great deal of her time taking care of them. She however, will email you back and is very active on our fanpage club.
It is hard to say....I bet it is frustrating....I think that she should expound on the liter and how each puppy does in there, That is not to much to ask in my opinion. I know our breeder has each puppy temperament tested and that is available along with a video at six weeks of age, other then that, each week we get an updated picture.
I would keep asking questions until you are satisfied.
My guess is that the answer is pretty simple. She is a good breeder who knows and loves her dogs and puppies but she has had so many puppies that they all kind of blend together. As the new owner, I know this is hard to understand because you only have eyes for Hattie. For the breeder, Hattie is one of many sweet, cute pups. Unless a puppy really stands out - aggressive, wild, ultra-submissive, etc - it is probably hard to determine unique personality characteristics at this age.
I've had the privilege of watching a couple litters of puppies as they grew. I could sit and watch the puppies play and try to learn their personalities. The breeder, however, had to feed, clean up after, bathe, socialize and do a lot of caregiving to make sure this was a physically and emotionally healthy litter. I think I knew individual puppy personalities better but the breeder was the one who the puppies saw as their second mama :-)
I am raising a litter now for my breeder and it is a busy time--and I just have two pups--it is hard to differentiate between puppies also if you are not paying attention to each individual. If she is a big breeder and has several litters, she may not even be totally sure of differences between littermates in terms of personality. Because I just have one litter at a time here and I am with them all day, I could give you a list of differences between my pups, but sometimes the breeders don't have the time to get to know them that well until they are 6 or 7 weeks old. I also think there is a fear that they will make statements that turn out to be untrue later on as the pup matures. Then you would be holding her to things that she told you--new owners are so anxious to "know" their pup before the pup comes home that they could be very vulnerable if told one thing and then later, when the pup comes home, they observe something different.
I think it is better to bring Hattie home with an open mind and great expectations and take it from there. They do change so much after 8 weeks --they are maturing, adapting to a new home with no momma dog, getting to know you, etc. It is good that she feels Hattie is calm and cautious and the rest will unfold as you get to know her.
I also have to say that it takes a LOT of time to photograph the pups and everyone is probably asking for pictures. They rarely hold still and I probably get one good picture and ten blurry ones. I need an second person to hold them if I want a really good picture. That said, one of my puppies sat still in the corner of the crate the other day and I snapped the picture quickly--isn't he adorable? His family meets him Saturday--they will be very happy to see how cute he is. He and his brother go home in three weeks and I will have my life back!
I might have been in a different situation because I lived about 20 minutes from Peri's breeder, so I was able to visit weekly and have long conversations about the litter. I agree with others in that it depends how many other litters they have and how busy they are. Heck, some breeders can't keep up with a photo update a week.
I think if your breeder health tests, provides a good warranty, etc...and you have really done your homework, I would not worry too much. THese feelings will go away as soon as Hattie comes home :)
Peri's breeder now blogs about each of her litters to keep folks on the waiting list informed about their health, temperament, etc..... I wish she had that 2 years ago!
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