Labradoodle & Goldendoodle Forum
Those who know me in real life, and well most of you on here are getting to know me pretty quickly know I am a total OCD cleaner. I can not stand the thought of dirt being in my house, Now granted, I have a very serious lung condition that makes me sick and germs can take me out pretty quickly.
The only way you would not know that today is Jack's second birthday is if you have been under a rock in DK world.
I have up to eight or so dogs coming over today as well as three toddlers and three slightly older children. This was going to be an outdoor party, you know, no germs in the house. Well it is totally pouring so hard that even if it stopped now, the dogs would need life rafts to get here.
I love my Jack so much, and I have put so much into this party are your ready, drum roll please.. I am lettting all the dogs and kids in my house!!!!! No other doodle will be here, these are all shedding dogs. but Jack loves them...
Since I can't really do much more then get out of a chair, tomorrow, I will have cleaning services come and shampoo and clean.
Jack Doodle, I hope you know how much you mean to me, somehow I think you would be just as happy curled up in my lap but we will Party ON.. Rain or Shine!!!
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Jennifer...I don't LIKE to clean but I would be happy to supervise the cleaners! LOL. I know what you mean, girlfriend, about loving our "babies". I sometimes hurt inside (a good hurt) about how much I love Rua and what she means to me. I know some people would say "get a life", well, that is exactly what I did by getting her. I moved to Omaha over 5 years ago and still feel isolated here...big town compared to where we lived and no family. I have worked in small companies as a CFO/Controller/Finance Manager, and as such, usually do not have many peers to associate with. And, given the nature of my role, I am generally not popular because I am seen as the "NO" person....Is that in the budget? Did you get approval? The contract is not completed correctly., etc. My DH is not at all jealous of the amount of time I spend with Rua, or the money I spend (had to budget her in and change a few things, but do so gladly).
Party on JD! Happy 2nd Birthday.
Dori, I know exactly what you mean. The people in my life are amazing. 99.9 percent of them know what Jack means to me. Jack has become a great part of my happiness, if he was to die tomorrow, I would be heartbroken but I would know that every single day he was alive, he was treated with the absolute most love I could have given him. That is how I treat everyone, human or dogs, I am a firm believer in doing that. I don't leave things for tomorrow. If there is anything I can find to celebrate I do it.
I got Jack right when I was told I could no longer work full time or even part time as a nurse. I worked so hard to become a nurse, a lot harder then a lot of other people for one, I was a high school drop out due to my health, ( I ended up graduating with a 4.0, Class President and was in every honor society available.
My dream was to be able to make enough money to take care of myself, to own a home and to have nice things. I was able to buy a brand new home, but I was only able to work full time as a nurse for less then two years. The whole time I was in nursing school, I was deathly ill where I was in the hospital every three to four weeks for a week or so at a time. I still managed to stay top of my class.
So fast forward, I moved to SC three years ago to buy a home, I bought one. The people that I moved down here to be with, ended up having to spend the majority of their time in NJ.. SO here I was, alone, sick, having to quit my job with no family here.
In comes Jack into my life, he was bought for me by my doctors because I was so sad about work and because one of them was a huge doodle addict. Jack stays by my side no matter what. He doesn't leave me, he isn't moving anywhere. He doesn't want anything. So while I am blessed with a lot of friends and family. Jack is the one thing I can count on to always be happy to see me, to not care if I am cranky and to just want love.
Don't misunderstand me, I have a lot of people who would go to the ends of the world for me as evidenced by the fact that I am stuck sitting on a chair while my friends who are not believers in dog birthday parties are cooking up food, decorating for me, and waiting on me hand and foot.
If Jack was to die tomorrow, God forbid, my life would not be over, I would Thank God for the time I had with him and know I gave him the best life possible while he did the same for me. Now on that note, he will live for 20 more years.. I insist!!!
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