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I was divorced the same year my daughter graduated from high school.  Not planned, not anticipated.  I realized  that my 27 year marriage would never hold up after my girl left.  Every day, all day it was about my girl, to give everything to her, no matter what.  I was stuck with the fact that once she left my marriage was a farce.   It has been a difficult 6 years since.  But, yesterday I had the best conversation in so many years,.  We spoke for nearly 2 hours on the phone.  I have been all about giving her space and time to decifer, her dad has had serious cancer, I've had my own issues.  But the best words were "Mom you sound happy, and I am so glad that you are happy now" My girl is back!  I'm the happiest mom ever~

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Comment by Deanna & Desi & Cori on May 10, 2011 at 5:24pm
*** SMILE ***
Comment by Susan and Sasha on May 10, 2011 at 11:51am

What wonderful news Sharon.

I'm so happy for both you and your daughter...

Comment by Jennifer,Chloe & Myla on May 10, 2011 at 9:00am
So sweet! I'm happy for you.
Comment by Maryann,Roo and Tigger on May 9, 2011 at 7:12pm

Yeah, hooray.  My daughter, by her own description "went sideways" for a few years.  When we got her back it was so wonderful.  Congratulations for giving her space.

Comment by Sue, Murphy and Bella ()*o*() on May 9, 2011 at 4:34pm
Children are likely to live up to what you believe of them. - Lady Bird Johnson

You have given her a gift of showing her the courage to do what you need to do to take care of yourself and to be happy. Two lessons most women never truly get.

I have an awesome daughter as well, 35 yrs old. At 18, she said to me " Mom, how did you know how to raise me, because I want to raise my children the same way" WOW! Will never forget that day.
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Comment by Carol and Banjo on May 9, 2011 at 3:11pm
Adult Mother Daughter relationships take time to find their "ground".  Not always an easy road.  I'm so happy for you that you're connecting with your daughter.
Comment by Leslie and Halas on May 9, 2011 at 9:43am
What a great Mothers Day gift!
Comment by Tina, Clover, Plus 5 More on May 9, 2011 at 9:27am

Sounds like the perfect Mother's Day.

Comment by Jane, Guinness and Murphy on May 9, 2011 at 4:48am
This must have been a perfect Mother's Day (well except for the bear).  I'm so glad you and your daughter were able to connect like this....wonderful for both of you.
Comment by Dori & Rua on May 9, 2011 at 4:39am
What a wonderful Mother's Day gift you received.  My DH has a daughter from a previous marriage.  She was 14 when then split up - she took it as he divorced her and he couldn't get her to see it any other way.  She won't have anything to do with ANY of his family.  She is now 25 and she still hasn't let him back into her life.  But one of these days...we can only hope and pray.

 

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