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Our Hearts Are So Sad/But She Will Be So Happy
Our hearts are so full, exhausted, and empty today.
For weeks I have talked with a woman in Wisconsin about Lace. Each day she would apologize for calling and writing so often. I told her she needed to call me this much. She needed to hear all that was going on. I would tell her the worst--holding back the good. I didn't want anyone to know what an angel I really had. I wanted to keep her all to myself. She was a great dog, a wonderful girl, with a broken heart and a lost soul. I also wanted an adopter to know what might take place during her regression into a new home. The family that has her--well they are just meant to be. They knew it before I did.
During the holidays she warmed up to everyone who entered our home. She cuddled with anyone who would cuddle with her. She was absolutely loving, happy, and irresistible. She played at the park each day and took her walks. She became strong very fast.
I also learned I had a very dominant puppy--Spud. He would not let her walk or eat. He just wanted to play with her so much. With his dominance and her extreme submissiveness she was not going to progress in our home.
It is hard to know someone else would be better for my foster. I was so strict and unyielding to anyone who would adopt this brittle girl. I thought she needed another two weeks but it could only happen now. I am confident she will continue to progress. This couple took in a dog several years ago with the exact situation. She thrived with them until she lost her battle to cancer in September. They were experienced and knew what to expect. They wanted to give her everything she needs. They need her too. They wanted her so much. To get past my protectiveness they worked very hard. I thought I was strong--She was the strong one. Best Wishes Lace. I love you.
Today she takes a long ride of 13 hours back to her forever and ever wonderful home. .It happened so quick. With tears in my eyes I am happy. Selfish and sad, I am happy for her.
I want to thank ALL who helped me with this extremely tough situation. So many phone calls, so many emails and letters of encouragement. You all were there for me. It was because of you, she will forever be happy.
UPDATE: THEY MADE IT HOME! I just received a great phone call this morning. All of them are very happy. Lace continues to make great eye contact, she is cuddling, and found some great sleeping spots already. She only gives them trouble with food. :) That's my anorexic girl. All is good with the world and another dog is happy.
For weeks I have talked with a woman in Wisconsin about Lace. Each day she would apologize for calling and writing so often. I told her she needed to call me this much. She needed to hear all that was going on. I would tell her the worst--holding back the good. I didn't want anyone to know what an angel I really had. I wanted to keep her all to myself. She was a great dog, a wonderful girl, with a broken heart and a lost soul. I also wanted an adopter to know what might take place during her regression into a new home. The family that has her--well they are just meant to be. They knew it before I did.
During the holidays she warmed up to everyone who entered our home. She cuddled with anyone who would cuddle with her. She was absolutely loving, happy, and irresistible. She played at the park each day and took her walks. She became strong very fast.
I also learned I had a very dominant puppy--Spud. He would not let her walk or eat. He just wanted to play with her so much. With his dominance and her extreme submissiveness she was not going to progress in our home.
It is hard to know someone else would be better for my foster. I was so strict and unyielding to anyone who would adopt this brittle girl. I thought she needed another two weeks but it could only happen now. I am confident she will continue to progress. This couple took in a dog several years ago with the exact situation. She thrived with them until she lost her battle to cancer in September. They were experienced and knew what to expect. They wanted to give her everything she needs. They need her too. They wanted her so much. To get past my protectiveness they worked very hard. I thought I was strong--She was the strong one. Best Wishes Lace. I love you.
Today she takes a long ride of 13 hours back to her forever and ever wonderful home. .It happened so quick. With tears in my eyes I am happy. Selfish and sad, I am happy for her.
I want to thank ALL who helped me with this extremely tough situation. So many phone calls, so many emails and letters of encouragement. You all were there for me. It was because of you, she will forever be happy.
UPDATE: THEY MADE IT HOME! I just received a great phone call this morning. All of them are very happy. Lace continues to make great eye contact, she is cuddling, and found some great sleeping spots already. She only gives them trouble with food. :) That's my anorexic girl. All is good with the world and another dog is happy.
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Comment by Ann Kendig on December 30, 2009 at 10:26am
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I am blinking back a few tears right now Joanne. I have thought of you so often since Lace came into your life. Mike and I have discussed your fostering Lace and how it takes a special person to let go when it comes time. Thank you (and hubby and Spud) for opening your hearts and home to Lace. I know it's hard letting go but because of your love and kindness she now has a shot at a the life she deserves. I know you will keep in touch with Lace's new parents. Please keep us informed of her progress! Bless you!!!!
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Comment by Joyce & Wilson on December 30, 2009 at 10:10am
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Joanne...I'm sure I'm not alone..and I can say that everyone at Doodlekisses..loves you and what you do for these special dogs..it takes a special person.. you are in my thoughts and prayers..it takes a lot more love to let go than to keep.....
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