Labradoodle & Goldendoodle Forum
Hi everyone!
My family and I adopted a barely 6 month old golden doodle last week. Her breeder had her living in a barn with her litter mates and mom. She would bring her into the house twice a day for socialization. Since bringing her home she I have discovered she is not housebroken. She will stay outside for a while without going potty then comes inside and promptly goes. She is very stressed when we leave to go to work and school when we crate her. Any suggestions anyone has would be great!
Traci
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This is a major change for your pup and she has no one to cuddle with to get through it. There is a teddy bear with a heart beat that makes them feel like they have another pup with them, I don't know what it is called but someone on hear will chime in soon with the name or you can check Amazon and I am sure it will pop up. If your breeder is close you may be able to get a piece of blanket with the litter mates scent on it and that may help. She isn't housebroken because she has been living in a barn and no one taught her but doodles are smart and she should learn quickly, our new 4 month old is coming along pretty well. When you are home it is time for lots of hugs, belly rubs and reassurance, this is such a big and traumatic change for her. Good luck and try to relax into the process and help her enjoy the new home.
I believe what you are talking about, Judy, is a Snuggle Puppy! They even make a "cream doodle" one. They come with a little heating pack and a device that makes a puppy heartbeat sound for them to be comforted by. You can get them on amazon or from doodlecountry.com
I should have added about restricting space, with our new Polly we have everything gated off, in the kitchen or computer room with us, in the living room with us or in the crate at night. She will eventually graduate but she earns the trust as we go and we try not to give her too much at a time, baby steps that are solid with no slipping back until she gets the next space opened up.
BTW if you have not used bells for potty training you should try them, many people use them so the dog has a way to signal that it wants to go out.
But is makes life so much easier as you work on the potty training, doesn't it, Jenn?
You might want to consider an option other than a crate. I had a couple dogs who hated crates but were as happy as anything in a bathroom or a laundry room. You need a safe area (check for anything that can be eaten or chewed, pulled down, etc) and I would give her some blankets/old towels to sleep on (think fluffy hay). Think about where she was living and try to give her something similar. My non-crate dogs stayed in a small room with a linoleum/tile floor (easy to clean up) and a baby gate across the door. I fed them in their area and would put them to bed with some yummy toys - maybe even a couple treats. The point is to make "their room" a place full of pleasant associations (I go in this room and get treats), safe cuddles (my dogs always like to scratch up a soft place to sleep), and yummy smells (treat filled kong or similar toys).
This poor girl has gone from limited human interaction and life in a barn to only human interaction and life in a crate (not being negative, just looking at it from a doggies point of view). Until she starts to enjoy her new surroundings, I understand her feeling stressed - I would be too :-(
Just wanted to add that the baby gate is crucial if you keep a dog in a bathroom or laundry room, as opposed to just closing the door to the room. They must be able to see out.
There are 3 parts to housebreaking a dog: 1. Teach the dog where she should go, 2. Teach the dog where she should NOT go, and 3. Eliminate all traces of odor in the places where she has made a mistake so that she doesn't return to those places.
You also need to feed her on a regular schedule so that her bowels are on a regular schedule. :) Meals need to be given at the same time every day.
In order to teach number 1 & 2, it's necessary to always praise her every time she eliminates in the right place, and to correct her every time she makes a mistake. In order to do that, you must see & reward her for pottying outdoors and you must catch her in the act of making a mistake indoors every time. You cannot reward a behavior if you don't see it, or correct a behavior after the fact. So ideally, it goes like this:
The dog is never allowed a chance to have an "accident" without you seeing it. She must be crated or otherwise confined when nobody is home, and tethered to you or otherwise supervised when you are home. Keep a leash on her. Every "mistake" she makes that goes unnoticed is reinforcement of the wrong behavior.
You always have high value treats handy to reward her for "going" in the right place, and you always go outside with her.
When you do see her start to make a mistake, you immediately stop & correct her verbally with a clear "Eh Eh Eh" or "No", spoken loudly and firmly but no screaming or yelling. Since she is always wearing her leash, you can also grab it and get her outside fast. If she finishes what she started when you get her outdoors, you give her a treat and praise her to the moon. Have a "good dog" party. Act like an idiot, lol. You are teaching her that pottying inside makes you unhappy, showing her where she should be doing it, and then rewarding her for making the right choice.
Then you clean up the area where she made a mistake with an odor neutralizer designed for that purpose, like Nature's Miracle. Just cleaning up is not enough; you may not be able to smell anything, but trust me, she can. You have to really saturate the area to eliminate any odor, or the dog will return to that spot.
Good luck. :)
Of course she isn't potty trained. Living in a barn with her litter, doesn't teach her about houses at all. You need to begin at the beginning of potty training as if she were 8 weeks old. It will go fast once she understands inside is a no and outside is a yes.
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