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Our Hearts Are So Sad/But She Will Be So Happy
Our hearts are so full, exhausted, and empty today.
For weeks I have talked with a woman in Wisconsin about Lace. Each day she would apologize for calling and writing so often. I told her she needed to call me this much. She needed to hear all that was going on. I would tell her the worst--holding back the good. I didn't want anyone to know what an angel I really had. I wanted to keep her all to myself. She was a great dog, a wonderful girl, with a broken heart and a lost soul. I also wanted an adopter to know what might take place during her regression into a new home. The family that has her--well they are just meant to be. They knew it before I did.
During the holidays she warmed up to everyone who entered our home. She cuddled with anyone who would cuddle with her. She was absolutely loving, happy, and irresistible. She played at the park each day and took her walks. She became strong very fast.
I also learned I had a very dominant puppy--Spud. He would not let her walk or eat. He just wanted to play with her so much. With his dominance and her extreme submissiveness she was not going to progress in our home.
It is hard to know someone else would be better for my foster. I was so strict and unyielding to anyone who would adopt this brittle girl. I thought she needed another two weeks but it could only happen now. I am confident she will continue to progress. This couple took in a dog several years ago with the exact situation. She thrived with them until she lost her battle to cancer in September. They were experienced and knew what to expect. They wanted to give her everything she needs. They need her too. They wanted her so much. To get past my protectiveness they worked very hard. I thought I was strong--She was the strong one. Best Wishes Lace. I love you.
Today she takes a long ride of 13 hours back to her forever and ever wonderful home. .It happened so quick. With tears in my eyes I am happy. Selfish and sad, I am happy for her.
I want to thank ALL who helped me with this extremely tough situation. So many phone calls, so many emails and letters of encouragement. You all were there for me. It was because of you, she will forever be happy.
UPDATE: THEY MADE IT HOME! I just received a great phone call this morning. All of them are very happy. Lace continues to make great eye contact, she is cuddling, and found some great sleeping spots already. She only gives them trouble with food. :) That's my anorexic girl. All is good with the world and another dog is happy.
For weeks I have talked with a woman in Wisconsin about Lace. Each day she would apologize for calling and writing so often. I told her she needed to call me this much. She needed to hear all that was going on. I would tell her the worst--holding back the good. I didn't want anyone to know what an angel I really had. I wanted to keep her all to myself. She was a great dog, a wonderful girl, with a broken heart and a lost soul. I also wanted an adopter to know what might take place during her regression into a new home. The family that has her--well they are just meant to be. They knew it before I did.
During the holidays she warmed up to everyone who entered our home. She cuddled with anyone who would cuddle with her. She was absolutely loving, happy, and irresistible. She played at the park each day and took her walks. She became strong very fast.
I also learned I had a very dominant puppy--Spud. He would not let her walk or eat. He just wanted to play with her so much. With his dominance and her extreme submissiveness she was not going to progress in our home.
It is hard to know someone else would be better for my foster. I was so strict and unyielding to anyone who would adopt this brittle girl. I thought she needed another two weeks but it could only happen now. I am confident she will continue to progress. This couple took in a dog several years ago with the exact situation. She thrived with them until she lost her battle to cancer in September. They were experienced and knew what to expect. They wanted to give her everything she needs. They need her too. They wanted her so much. To get past my protectiveness they worked very hard. I thought I was strong--She was the strong one. Best Wishes Lace. I love you.
Today she takes a long ride of 13 hours back to her forever and ever wonderful home. .It happened so quick. With tears in my eyes I am happy. Selfish and sad, I am happy for her.
I want to thank ALL who helped me with this extremely tough situation. So many phone calls, so many emails and letters of encouragement. You all were there for me. It was because of you, she will forever be happy.
UPDATE: THEY MADE IT HOME! I just received a great phone call this morning. All of them are very happy. Lace continues to make great eye contact, she is cuddling, and found some great sleeping spots already. She only gives them trouble with food. :) That's my anorexic girl. All is good with the world and another dog is happy.
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Comment by Denise & Hunter!!! on March 11, 2010 at 5:14am
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Hi!! How is Lace doing? Have you heard from them? I just loved her that short time I met her :-)
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Comment by Michele Barton on December 31, 2009 at 5:52pm
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Bless you Joanne, you are so special!
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Comment by Karen & Lucy on December 31, 2009 at 11:30am
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OMGoodness Joanne, haven't been on much over the holidays and just caught up on this. I am tearing up for you. My heart goes out to you with many {{{{{{{{{{{{{{{HUGS}}}}}}}}}}}}}. I love you for what you have done for this wonderful doodle. You have given her your love and hope and a good home. KUDOS
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Comment by Margaret Erwin on December 31, 2009 at 6:30am
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Wondering where she is in Wisconsin - I am in Wausau and always looking for playmates. Harry and Ella just turned one.
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Ok Joanne, I am totally crying now. I am sooo happy she has a forever home. I just knew looking into those sweet, beautiful eyes she had a perfect soul. I would love to get together soon. You were WONDERFUL for all you did for her, you made all the difference in the world to her.
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Comment by Lucy & AnnaBelle's Mom on December 31, 2009 at 3:10am
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I've thought of you and Lace and the challenges that you both faced so often since she became a part of your life. We all know where she would be if it weren't for you staying in touch with the man who originally adopted her. You are her angel. She was lucky to have had you in her life to prepare her for her new forever home. Sounds like you have chosen a wonderful home for her. I hope they choose to become a part of DK so we can all see how she progresses. Thank you for saving Lace!
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Comment by Kyoko on December 30, 2009 at 10:36pm
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You made a great difference in her life, Joanne. without your commitment and patience, this would not have happened.... You made it all possible for Lace.
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Comment by cheryl & oliver on December 30, 2009 at 5:27pm
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Joanne, what a wonderful thing you did for Lace. You showed her how to love and be loved, you gave her all the best of you and now she has the best of you in her. She is now in her forever home, and I am sure that you are happy with them, or you would have never let her go there...I am hoping that they keep in touch with you and let you know how she is doing. there was a movie that said everytime an Angel gets it's wings, a bell rings....Think of all the bells that have rung these past holiday days....these were for you to get your angel wings....I think we all at Doodle kisses heard the bells many times over for you...You are a very special angel....Cheryl
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Comment by Nina, Phil, Harlow & Lacey on December 30, 2009 at 5:13pm
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Oh Joanne! I am so happy for Lace and so sad for you. I know just how you feel. Jax got his forever home for Christmas and Lace got her's for New Years. Here is a huge virtual hug and shoulder to cry on.
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Comment by Adina P on December 30, 2009 at 5:05pm
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What a bittersweet event -- she found her new home! Awesome. I'm so happy to hear the amazing progress you helped Lace make =)
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