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I have a similar problem I hope both our problems resolve.. these aren't exactly all the happy doodles stories I have read about... :)
We have had Stuart now for two days. He was bailed out from a terrible shelter from a rescue group and they had him for a week. He was tick infested and starving. He has gained some weight but is still only 50lbs and should weigh at least 80 (he is a big boy) when he was with the rescue he was with three other male doodles- no problems they ate together with no issues. When he came to my house he wouldn't eat his food but went over to my other dogs bowl and ate so my other dog went over to his bowl to finish his food and Stuart attacked him (quite seriously)... Now we are feeding them separate and now my dog doesn't trust him and there is definitely tension. Stuart now tries to play with my other dog but my other dog doesn't trust him and won't play. I do have a trainer coming in a couple of days and am enrolled in obedience class (guess I will have to take my other dog back to obedience now too). Stuart is sweet sweet with people but, this tension between the two dogs is upsetting. They did meet before we adopted them and they played everything seeme fine. This wasn't exactly they happy go lucky doodle week I thought it was going to be. We are committed however, and will work through this I was just hoping I would have funny doodle stories to tell the first week... I might add our first dog has never ever had a problem with any dog. We have always raved how gentle he is but, he sure will not back down to Stuart...
Melody, This discussion is very old and you might not get too many responses. It might be better to post a new discussion on the front page asking for help, etc. I know one member Amy, Cubbie, & Ollie had a similar situation and would be a good source of information for you. It does take a new dog (especially re-homed or rescued) at least a couple of weeks, if not longer, to settle in. Everything is new right now for Stuart and he isn't sure what is happening or what is expected of him. Thank you so much for adopting this poor guy and I feel a trainer is a good idea! Good luck!!
This is perfect advice. Two days is nothing; two weeks is nothing. It takes time for them to work out their places in the family dynamic and develop trust.
The way that a dog behaves with another dog outside of his home bears very little relationship to the way he will behave when that dog is sharing his space and all of his resources.
The home dog should not be expected to back down to the newcomer; he has an established place in the pack and he's earned it. As much as possible, his usual routine should not be disrupted. His favorite places should not be usurped. He gets his treat before the new dog. He gets his food before the new dog. Mealtime should be strictly supervised adn the dogs kept as far apart from each other as possible. Some people put the food bowls at opposite ends of the room and sit on the floor in the middle to prevent anyone from going to the other's bowl. If you start a new discussion, you will get a lot of good advice from people who have successfully dealt with the same issues. But it does take time.
Also, food is likely going to be a huge issue for Stuart, as he has probably never had as much as he wanted or needed on a regular basis and had to compete for what he got. It will take time for him to learn that food will always be provided at regular intervals in this new place and there is no need to fight over it. As Laurie said, he has no idea what to expect or what is expected of him, and a dog needs to know those things in order to relax and feel secure.
For now, it's important to try to stick to a very consistent schedule with meals and household routines.
I would also try to limit visitors for now.
Thanks okay I will start a new discussion. I appreciate your comments and support. I feel like we are walking on egg shells here and not so comfortable...
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