Labradoodle & Goldendoodle Forum
so, I work for an orthodontist.. this morning a patient and her dad came in.. we started somehow getting into a conversation about dogs, and how I always find lost dogs and rescue them and things like that.. so me and the father started talking and it turns out they have 4 dogs, so of course I asked what kinds (lab/golden mix.. toy Chihuahua and 2 lab/boxer mixes) I asked all sorts of questions, names, ages, asked to see pics.. and they were all cuties!! I said wow 4 dogs I can barely deal with 1 when he was a puppy and I told him I have a goldendoodle.. I got no response.. then I showed him a picture..and showed him a picture or 2...no response..not hes cute or anything.. I thought it was weird because we were just chatting so much about his dogs and all that.. then I asked him where he got his 2 lab/boxer mix twins..and he said he adopted them and that he doesn't believe in buying dogs.. and this and that.. I felt kinda bad I must say..i mean then I realized why he didn't even respond when I said I had a goldendoodle or when I showed him a picture.. I guess he felt I got a "designer dog".. I got a goldendoodle because I have allergies and asthma..very bad in fact.. and I had a toy mini and standard poodle and wanted to try a different breed.. I heard so much about doodles and how they are great dogs and honestly, they are the cutest!!! I love midas to death..i just hate when people kind of look down on me for getting a mixed breed or "designer dog" when that's not at all why I got a doodle.. I could tell this man was judging me once he heard the type of dog I had.. I thought that was kind of mean.. it was obvious in my office that he stopped talking once I mentioned my dog and his breed.. and no response at all to my picture?? ok even if u didn't think he was cute at least say something like "wow hes big" lol I don't know I just felt awkward and uncomfortable and I felt like I had to explain myself as to why I chose a doodle and didn't adopt. I am all for adopting that's wonderful! and if I knew about doodles for adoption I probably would have, but It didn't end up that was and I have the love of my life Midas! anyways rant over.. lol
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Oh brother--how rude! i am a big believer in rescue and support the humane societies and shelters in my area, but I don't think rescue is for everyone and I am sad when others look down on people if they don't rescue a pup instead of buying one-all of my dogs have been bought (for lots of reasons I won't go into) but I have nothing but respect and gratitude for the people out there who have given shelter dogs a good home--unfortunately, some of those people choose to believe that anyone who buys a dog is a bad person--and that just isn't fair. Don't let it bother you--they are in the wrong....
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