Puppy Madness

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Comment by Helga, Nimbus, Sierra, Clooney on September 13, 2014 at 8:08pm

I like the analogy with the orphans, Stephanie.

Comment by Stephanie W & Charlie on September 13, 2014 at 7:39pm

I felt a lot of judgement, like others, when telling people I was getting a puppy who wasn't a rescue. With those who were close to me, I'd tell them I spent 9 months searching rescues for a doodle for our allergic family but it seemed like no one "returns" these great dogs. Sometimes I just ignored the comments. When I felt guilt, I made donations to charity. When I feel feisty, I bite my lip so as not to snap back, "And why did you choose to birth your own children rather than adopting an orphan?!?" Yikes. Maybe when Charlie is a bit older I'll mellow too.  ;-)

Comment by Shoney & Ruby on September 13, 2014 at 1:38pm

Thank you for all the feedback and support. I have had rescues in the past [and probably will in the future]. I've researched carefully and hope I have chosen well. If anyone has any information about High Mesa Doodles please email me off-list.

It really helps to hear that most of you have only heard positive things from people when they meet your dog. I can hardly wait for my doodle...

Comment by Deb's Yarrow and Schatzi on September 13, 2014 at 11:25am

And to add to what Lynda said, if you have ever watched an episode of Cesar's new show, Leader do the Pack, you'd see that even when families believe they are ready and able to bring home a rescue dog, most people just don't have all the right "energy", knowledge, patience, and experience to do right by a needy dog. (Long sentence award. LOL). On that program he chooses a dog in need of rescue (non aggressive) and coaches willing families on how to best help the dog. Then he chooses the best family for the job.

Comment by Lynda Kamrath on September 13, 2014 at 10:59am

Shoney and Deb - We are definitely dog lovers and have done it all - rescue, foster, designer dogs, rehome, etc.  My husband says that rescuing a dog is like adopting a child from juvenile hall.  Yes, they definitely need to be rescued, but are you the one to do it.  Totally depends on your situation and what you want.  I have no problem at all paying a lot of money to a good breeder to get exactly what I want, but paying a lot of money (or even a little money) to a puppy mill or backyard breeder is not an intelligent thing to be doing.  Be smart when you are choosing your dog. 

Comment by Sherri Mazursky on September 13, 2014 at 10:46am

My family donates plenty of money to shelters every year and our cats are all from shelters. For a family of people with dog allergies, a doodle is the way to go.

Comment by Amy N on September 13, 2014 at 10:36am

I mean no disrespect to your friend, but she's being quite a bully. Why does she care about what decision is best for your family? But that's just me being protective of our decision to get a mini golden doodle. Maybe if she had one, she wouldn't even be asking the question!! : )

They're just the best. I love my pup and I'm so glad we invested the money to go to a reputable breeder and get a dog that's perfect for our family with young children. And the no-shed factor...priceless! 

Comment by Leslie, Yogi & Maci Bear on September 13, 2014 at 10:25am

Same here, when I got Yogi, I would steel myself for negative comments when someone would ask me what type of dog he is. Never have had a mean statement. If It does happen though, I'll just attribute it to the person. I adore my dogs and I got them for a reason, it really is no one else's business. I guess I feel like someone else's mistake is not mine. I would love to give a rescue a home, but this is not what we chose to do this time.

Comment by Minda and Callie on September 13, 2014 at 10:05am

I had always heard and read this before we got Callie but since we have gotten her no one has every said anything to me.  I think her cuteness gets them before they can talk :D

Comment by Texas Doodle Mom and Molly Rose on September 13, 2014 at 10:02am

I agree with Deb 'n Yarrow and Shiloh - "I think it's hypocritical for any devout dog lover to hold a prejudice against any dog no matter where it came from. That's a "dog lover" with exceptions and conditional love."  AMEN!

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